>> Why We Have This Emotion
Grief honors deep bonds, signals our need for support, and helps us reorganize life after a loss. It lets us preserve our attachment and our values while adapting to new realities.
◎ What to do in the moment
Good Ideas
- Allow tears, treat them as natural
- Allow laughter without feeling guilt
- Keep simple daily health routines
- Let friends know how they can help
- Mark anniversaries gently
- Join a grief group, in-person or online
- Seek therapy if grief feels paralyzing
Bad Ideas
- Hide your feelings to protect others
- Refuse all offers of support
- Pretend the loss never happened
- Force yourself to “get over it”
- Avoid all reminders of loss
- Let guilt erase all good memories
- Pressure others to grieve like you do