>> Why We Have This Emotion
Confidence frees up our mental bandwidth from worries. It helps how we approach taking opportunities, leading groups, and persisting through challenges.
◎ What to do in the moment
Good Ideas
- Support someone less sure
- Share credit generously with others
- Volunteer for something meaningful
- Notice your body's grounded feeling
- Prepare ahead of time so that your confidence is anchored in reality
- Avoid over-extending yourself
Bad Ideas
- Steamroller others’ opinions
- Mistake this as “I can't be wrong”
- Ignore risks while feeling confident
- Mistake entitlement for confidence
- Use confidence to manipulate others
- Shame others for feeling anxious
- Dismiss prep as unnecessary